Thursday, July 21, 2016

How to Deal with Toxic People

If you can’t escape the toxic people in your life, just:

1. Don’t allow them to manipulate you into acting in certain ways
(For example, don’t allow them to control you by being moody, demanding or rude.)

2. Don’t tip toe around them or live your life walking on egg shells.

3. Don’t make excuses for their bad behaviour or their inappropriate and over-the-top reactions.

4. Don’t be afraid to speak up for yourself and to call things what they are (Often we are too polite to say anything, especially in social settings. However, that just perpetuates the situation, and keeps you feeling trapped and negative.)

5. Don’t allow them to play emotional games. For example, speak up when they are being rude and offensive by saying something like “Was it your intention to try to make me look bad when you said that?) Often a direct approach, especially in public, is very effective.

6. Establish personal boundaries. Do not allow other people to treat you in rude or disrespectful ways. Remember that we teach other people how to treat us!

7. Remember not to take things personally as it’s really about THEM, and not you.


It's reaaaally hard when there are so many toxic people nowadays. But dass ok!
We live to please Allah, not them :-)

Tuesday, July 12, 2016

Eat it!


What my sister says to me.... ALL THE TIME!!!?

Hahahah! Please lah kakak. Stop gemukkan adik kau boleh tak ugh!!!!!!
So tempting to take ALL like seriously every single food which served. Astaghfirullah. Teruk nau nau weh kalau qila takleh kawal my lusts for food. Hahah!

Penat la gi openhouse (ececeh) susah betul kalau cuti sem ni haih. Umi masak sedap2.
Tak habis2 tanya nak makan apa adududuh. Jgn la masak fevret food kita TT_TT
Hahahaha. But seriously, T_T I eat a lot like sumpah banyak rasa mcm belon dah.

Ceteka mana satu belon.
Hahahahha!
Ni ha belon. I'm one happy fat balloon hahaha.
#TeamRayaGombak #TeamTakPakaiHighHeels #TeamBabyPink

Okay, LEMANG, RENDANG AYAM RENDANG DAGING NASI LEMAK RENDANG NASI TOMATO AYAM MASAK MERAH KETUPAT SATAY KUIH RAYA CHOC CHIPS MARUKU TART NENAS DAN LAIN LAIN2 ni lah makanan sodap yang sesungguhnya mengharamkan diet T_T RIP diet.
Jom gi tengok The Purge 3rd : The Election????? Anyone???? 

Thursday, July 7, 2016

Mat Ri Ye

Hahaaha over betul shortform nya. Selamat Hari Raya everybodeh! Hihi. Jangan makan lemang , rendang,ketupat, kuih raya banyak2 eh. Ihiks. Alhamdulillah. Raya sudah. Masa ni lah nak mintak ampun dgn umi abah ekeke. (walaupun patut mintak ampun tiap2 hari hee)

Well, Happy Eid Mubarak 😊 everyone!
Don't forget to keep up with the good deeds :) Jgn sedih2 kalau ada orang luka kan hati kita. 
Even if it comes from ur own family members. Okay?
Okay. Bai. Huhuhu. 
$$$$$$$ raya come to mehhhhh. Can't wait to shop till drop hihih. Take care semua!