Thursday, July 21, 2016

How to Deal with Toxic People

If you can’t escape the toxic people in your life, just:

1. Don’t allow them to manipulate you into acting in certain ways
(For example, don’t allow them to control you by being moody, demanding or rude.)

2. Don’t tip toe around them or live your life walking on egg shells.

3. Don’t make excuses for their bad behaviour or their inappropriate and over-the-top reactions.

4. Don’t be afraid to speak up for yourself and to call things what they are (Often we are too polite to say anything, especially in social settings. However, that just perpetuates the situation, and keeps you feeling trapped and negative.)

5. Don’t allow them to play emotional games. For example, speak up when they are being rude and offensive by saying something like “Was it your intention to try to make me look bad when you said that?) Often a direct approach, especially in public, is very effective.

6. Establish personal boundaries. Do not allow other people to treat you in rude or disrespectful ways. Remember that we teach other people how to treat us!

7. Remember not to take things personally as it’s really about THEM, and not you.


It's reaaaally hard when there are so many toxic people nowadays. But dass ok!
We live to please Allah, not them :-)

7 comments:

  1. Let's surround ourselves with more positive people instead of toxic people.

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  2. i wish it's easy to do that!! most time byk makan hati dengan apa yg orang cakap sobs. dah cuba not to be fragile, tapi tu lah, still jugak kalah dgn manusia mcm ni. </3

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  3. thank you for sharing ^^

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  4. I think the important part is to always believe in yourself and not letting others change who you are. And you will be fine <333

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  5. lets be the person with the positive vibes and kills those toxic. LOL XD

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  7. this entry are very inspiring. sometimes im being too negative, and thought that everybody just dont care about me anymore T__T but its not true, they called me, ask my condition, looking for me, its just me who are to negative :P positive spirit, aku seru namamu, berdampinglah selalu agar lepas ni tak sedih dah hahahaha panjang pulak komen

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